Preparing for Summer: Beach Bag

It’s hard to believe that Memorial Day is around the corner. With it comes the realization that Summer is here and if you’re like me, you’re no where near ready.

Over the next few days Adriele and I will help you bring your closet up to speed to make your days at the beach or lake, enjoyable.

Before you add anything, you’re going to need a beach bag. Toting your bag around all summer can be damaging. I have had many sad bags that just make it to Labor Day. That is OK. In this case you are not making an investment.

What activities you have planned will really determine what type of bag you should purchase. Here are some things to consider on your search.

Target $19.99

Target $19.99

JCP $20

JCP $20

Forever 21 $12.80

Forever 21 $12.80

  • How far/often will you be carrying your tote? If it’s simply in and out of restaurants, no worries, but, if you are walking longer distances consider wide, sturdy straps. They’ll be more comfortable for you whether you are carrying your bag in your hand or over your shoulder.              
  • What will you be carrying? If you’re just packing your essentials like a towel, reading material, sunblock etc. then most any bag will do. Make sure it has a depth to it, 5″ is a safe bet. Now, if you plan on taking your laptop, work material or even your kid’s toys along with you, you’ll need to look for a large bag.
  • What is your style? Generally, when purchasing a beach bag, one does not have to worry about whether it will match every possible outfit for the summer.  It should however, be a reflection of you. If you like to glam it up, no matter where you are, don’t pick the slouchy style. If your style is more bohemian don’t grab the structured classic tote. Your beach bag is an opportunity to showcase you. Make sure you pick a bag that fits you.

 

 

Now that you’ve picked out a bag, what is the one item that you just have to have at the beach?

I can’t go to the beach without my chap stick and camera.

Share yours in the comment section below!

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Trend of the Week: Cut-Outs

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The above visual aide helps me demonstrate what we’re looking at with this week’s Trend of the Week- the Cut Out Dress. This trend is well… hard to pull off unless you have a body like one of the above ladies.

The cut out dress done with class can be on trend and fabulous, however there is a very thin line between class and crass with this trend and most of what I see out on the streets leans towards the latter. The older you get (sorry ladies), the harder this trend is going to be for you to successfully execute.

Most people see an adorable high school/college girl in something like this and think:

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She looks so great! I want to try this trend! Yes! She is ADORABLE! Yes the dress is trés chic!

But if you are over the age of 25 I would seriously consider the following:

1. Do you have the body for it

2. Do you want to deal with the possible wardrobe malfunctions that could occur

3. Are you prepared to have people that look at you and think “She is WAY too old to pull that off!!”

If you answer to any of the previous questions was “no” then steer clear, my dear. If you MUST try this trend, stick with one basic cutout on the side, back or perhaps the middle (I don’t get those at ALL) and wear it to an appropriate fun (non business) function. My favorite- wear it on vacation! You won’t know anyone there and you can pull out all of the things that you’re too conservative or unsure of back home to give them a trial run! If they don’t work on vacay, give away! I had a super cute mod mini dress that I was dying to wear. After a night out in Chicago, I learned that too short is just BAD and ever since have adjusted lengths to my comfort zone. Vacation testing. It’s a thing.

So if you’re under 25 (or one of the daring over that age- Cassandra does not love these on adults) here are some places to find them.

Forever 21

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Modcloth

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And if you buy something like this, you NEED to be college age and younger. Or a supermodel, because let’s face it, they wear weird stuff all the time and get away with it. That’s not necessarily a good thing…

Regardless, if you try, err on the side of caution with this one. I don’t want to see any of this

cut-out-dressnonsense on the streets!! It looks like Jack the Ripper helped you get ready. No thanks.

Dress cautiously with this one ladies!

Guy Friday: Get To Know Your Tailor

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Gentlemen, I know we’ve gone over some basics, and will continue to do so. However, we need to discuss the one main secret that separates that men from the boys when it comes to fashion and style- a good tailor.  He is the unsung hero of the the well-dressed. Sure, they can shorten pant legs and take up a suit sleeve, but they can do so much more! If you don’t have your own personal Cassandra to nip and tuck you to fabulousness, invest in finding a good tailor. This is the type of thing you need to ask around for, not just google “tailor” and pick the location that’s the closest to work. This person needs to be highly skilled, and you are paying them to NOT screw up whatever item you just brought them. Trust me. It’s a big deal.

Reasons why you need a good tailor:

#1: To take in all of your blouse-like shirts. The sides are not SUPPOSED to be poofy guys. You can purchase a cheap (maybe even thrift) shirt and tailor in the sides. Check out this guy below. Did he lose weight? NO! He had someone take in the sides (and shorten the sleeves)! Look how much better it looks! (Ignore the frat boy faded khakis. That’s still a no, guys) Before-and-After-Alfani-Red #2. To shorten your sleeves. As you see in the above picture, the arms looked baggy in the before, and after they look less like Tom Hanks in “Big.”

#3 To fix your suits. Suits sold off the rack are by nature boxy. A tailor will nip in the waist and this will automatically make a suit look better, and honestly will feel more comfortable.

#4.  Take your pant legs in. Yes I said legs in. Some guys like a wider thigh because they have large quads and don’t want skin-tight pants. You can purchase larger pants and have the waist and legs taken in so that they fit like a glove.

#5 You lose or gain weight, they can adjust your clothing accordingly. I am only talking 10-20 lbs, any more and you should probably buy some new clothes. They can work magic, but there’s only so much they can do.

#6. To adjust jacket length. When you put your arm to your side, your thumb should hit the bottom of your jacket. If it’s too long, have a tailor take it up a bit.

The main rule of thumb I tell guys is that WHATEVER shirt, jacket, etc you buy- it must fit in the shoulders. That is the hardest part to adjust and most often, not worth the adjustments. It can be too long, too big, too short even and they can fit it. As long as it fits in your shoulders.

Not sure where to go? If you don’t have some recommendations from friends, most suit stores have a tailor and if you call them you can see if they take appointments for items not purchased in that store. If not, they will probably know of a tailor you can go to.

Guys this is the best way to spruce up your old wardrobe and make it more stylish. So look through your closet and pick out a few dress shirts and a suit or jacket, and head over to your tailor. Let me know how it goes!!! (No more poofy shirts!!!)

Happy Friday!

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Refashion: Skinny Grey Pants

It’s been quite some time since I’ve been able to do a ugy grey pantsrefashion. There have been two reasons: one, I didn’t bring my sewing machine; two, I haven’t had much time.

The first excuse was solved with the loan of my aunt’s sewing machine. The second excuse was solved by me admitting that it was just an excuse.

Today’s refashion was out of necessity. Yes, I’ve done something similar in the past. BUT, I desperately needed to add another pair of pants I could wear in Seattle. Until the weather is more stable I can’t rely on being able to wear skirts regularly like I did in Wichita.

So here’s the breakdown on yesterday’s project. First, I took these old navy pants that were picked up sometime ago at a thrift store and tried them on. While they fit me perfectly in the hips I noticed that they were not only too big in the leg, they also sagged in the crotch. I knew I wanted these to work well with flats and boots so I chose to go with a skinny style.

pinned legAfter pinning on one side (the inseam), I took them off. I then turned them inside out. I had to play a bit with my aunt’s machine, making sure the tension was going to work for this material. Once that was all set I started sewing at the crotch and in one continuous swoop I took it all the way down to the hem.

I flipped them right side out to make sure the had gotten the new seam correct. Assured that the fit was what I was looking for, I proceeded to sew the same continuous line on the other leg.

Voila! I have a pair of nice fitting skinnies grey
grey skinny pants and it only took about 10 minutes. (That includes me trying to take my selfies.)

 

What type of refashion would you like me to try next?

Closet Staple: Black Pants

Black trousers can save you from closet woes. Not sure what a ‘closet woe’ is? It’s that moment when you look in your closet and think ‘I have nothing to wear’.

Banana Republic $98

Banana Republic $98

The benefit of having a quality, well tailored pair of black pants is exponential. They’re also simple to style as everything from your white button up to a front tie blouse will look chic with your black trousers.

Not sure what type of pant is going to look best on you? Here are some tips:

-Plus size: look for a wider leg, this will help balance you. Also a crease can help elongate you.

-Boy shaped: look for pants that accentuate the waist. Also make sure you tuck in your shirt, this will help create the illusion of being more curvy.

-Petite: look for skinny or slim cut pants this will give you length in the legs. Also pair with heels to maximize the look.

-Hourglass shape: look for small or no waist-bands. Keeping to clean lines will show off your shape.

As with any closet staple be prepared to make an investment. Once you find a style that fits consider getting it in a lightweight and heavy fabric so that you can easily transition from winter/fall to spring/summer.

 

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X Marks the Naive

I love taking the bus. Every stop is a russian roulette of fashion.

I can’t help but admire the well dressed man, or the edgy teen as they board the bus. Just last week I noticed this slickly dressed gentleman walking down the bus aisle. I was impressed by the cut of his suit and the shoes of quality leather.

When he turned I couldn’t help but roll my eyes. There on the vent to his suit jacket was a large x. A stylish, well dressed man no longer looked fashionable. Instead he looked naive and simply lucky.bastingkickpleat

Leaving the basting stitches on the vents of a man’s suit or the bottom kick pleats of a women’s skirt are just the beginning. basting pocketsPockets in suit jackets or blazers are often basted shut as well. Also labels are basted on the sleeves of coats–this is makes it easy for shops to identify the designer of a jacket without searching for the inside label.

Garment manufacturers utilize basting stitches to assist in keeping the structure of a garment during transportation. Some retailers will remove them before displaying but many leave them so that the item will continue to keep a finished look. bastinglabel

The problem is many people don’t realize that these stitches are not meant to stay. Basting stitches are loose and can be easily pulled out after one snip.

Do yourself a favor and take a moment to check your closet. Snip, snip.

I hope this helps many of you out. Please do the right thing and share this with your friends. Remember, friends don’t let friends wear basting.

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Trend of the Week: Punk

That’s right folks, punk is back. So dust off your spikes, 80′s rock band t-shirts and get to stylin’!

The best part of a trend like Punk style is that you can do it on the cheap. Scour your local thrift store and you’ll be sure to come up with some pretty fabulous finds. Try pairing some of these edgy pieces with your more sophisticated attire and you’ll be able to pull off this look without a hitch.

BUT if thrifting isn’t your thing. You can easily pick up one of these:

Charlotte Russe $29.99

Charlotte Russe $29.99

Wet Seal $12.90

Wet Seal $12.90

Francesa's $54

Francesa’s $54

Forever 21 $13.80

Forever 21 $13.80

Need further inspiration?

Check out photos from the Met Gala. Which outfit is your favorite?

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Men’s Style: Let’s Talk Athletic Clothing…

As many of you know, this blog is about fashion. If you’ve never stepped foot into the world of Pretentious Cotton, here’s the deal: Cassandra and I write a daily post Mon-Fri each week and every Friday I drop some fashion knowledge on the gentlemen. This is not a blog for men that own silk blend suits and own limited edition ties. Not for those that get manicures, pedicures, etc on the regular. Guy Friday is more the “every man’s blog” in which we discuss changing their wardrobe since they haven’t really done much since high school (over a decade ago). While I LOVE and appreciate the uber fashionable men reading the blog, I am specifically gearing it as more of a “Guy Dressing 101.”

That being said, let’s go over some basic ground rules that I think you men should know, but JUST IN CASE. I’m going to throw this out there:

1. Black athletic sock are NOT black dress socks. I know several culprits that just think “same color… it’s a sock… I’ll just put this on instead.” NO! Especially (you know who you are) when they are almost green because you have washed them so many times. Also, since I’m on the sock rant, ankle socks are NOT WORK APPROPRIATE. Be a big boy and run to Target, Kohls, Dillards, whatever, and go get some basic dress socks. If you need help, ask someone.

2. Athletic clothes in public. Let’s discuss. So you’re sporty. Congratulations. The only time a man should be running around in sweats and a hoodie is if one of several things is happening:

1. You just finished at the gym and you’re running errands (P.S. please don’t be stinky. Ew.
2. You just finished some activity that requires them to dress that way- Ex: coaching, lifting something heavy/helping people move, working an athletic event, going to Lowes, etc.
3. You are SICK (sorry, free pass when you’re sick. Just avoid the general public please.)
4. It’s freezing outside and you’re just popping outside to grab food or run an errand or two. I do not begrudge you when it’s below freezing. I am constantly in a hoodie once not at work when it is that cold outside.

Anything other than that, please put on some pants that DON’T have a drawstring. Make some effort. When I say make some effort, I do NOT mean
“make sure your entire outfit is all Nike or Adidas.” That’s not the kind of effort I’m talking about here. Put on actual pants. Especially if you’re with a female.

In short, athletic clothing is just that- for ATHLETIC EVENTS. Or lounging around the house. NOT FOR PUBLIC SPACES. I’ll start a campaign #PutOnRealPants and see where that goes.

Happy Friday guys! WEAR SOME REAL PANTS! :)

Editor’s note: I normally put pictures with my blogs, but as I am attempting to get you gentlemen to NOT wear more sports gear, I am not posting something that you would go out and buy. I’m pretty sure most of you have a fairly good stock of sweats and hoodies. 

Dress for Graduation

Yes, it is the season for graduations. We also have Mother’s Day, Father’s Day and in my house, birthday parties.

I do love this time of year as we move into summer and celebrate the accomplishments of the people we love.

Forever 21 $24.80

Forever 21 $24.80

No matter the occasion I’ve got you covered.

Yesterday, Adriele explained why you need a Maxi Dress in your closet. A graduation event is the perfect opportunity to show off your closet staple. I like this one from Forever 21. Add a pair of heels and a statement necklace to make this work for a more formal event. Worried about going sleeveless? Just add a pashmina.

Target $27.99

Target $27.99

Another great option if you want a more professional look is the peplum dress. Pair these with nude pumps and a bubble necklace.

Both outfits are budget friendly and offer a versatility from casual and cute to dressy and fabulous!

Do you know what you’re wearing to your next gathering? We’d love to hear from you-comment below.

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Closet Staple: The Maxi Dress

I was going to write an amazing limerick as an “ode to the Maxi dress” but let’s face it, not much rhymes with maxi. Go ahead. Try it. I’ll wait… Nothing? Ok. Moving on.

I love a good maxi dress, and it works in so many situations. It’s easy to add layers and is usually incredibly comfortable. Right now I’m loving a striped or chevron maxi. More specifically, a navy and white stripe or chevron. This maternity dress from Old Navy is such a cute choice for my pregnant friends!

Maternity Chevron-Striped Maxi Tank Dress Old Navy

Maternity Chevron-Striped Maxi Tank Dress Old Navy

I love the fact that a large portion of Maxi dresses are made of a jersey material. Not only comfortable, but they don’t wrinkle easily and are an excellent choice for traveling. In addition, there are so many options for every personality. Solid or print, strapless or sleeved, there is something for everyone! They look great on any body type. You can choose how daring or demure you feel and still be on trend.

Maylene Patio Dress Banana Republic

Maylene Patio Dress Banana Republic

Semi-Sheer Maxi Tube Dress Forever 21

Semi-Sheer Maxi Tube Dress Forever 21

Drapey maxi dress, Gap

Drapey maxi dress, Gap

Gap even makes a 4-in-1 Maxi that converts to a skirt, a tea length dress or a drop waist Maxi. Well done Gap, well done.

Gap 4-in-1 Striped Maxi

Gap 4-in-1 Striped Maxi

If you’re looking for style and comfort this Spring/Summer the Maxi dress should be your first choice. Bring a light jacket or cardigan with you, and this day dress easily converts to evening. If you have a more casual work environment, you could even throw a fitted blazer over this and wear it to work. In the fashion world, rarely is something so cute, comfortable and easy to wear. Trust me. Every woman should own one. Or several.

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